The real question regarding whispers has to be if there are some so keen on the one to one with the model in question why not just take that model private?
One suggestion to any on the site keep in mind you will never know what another member might do on this site. Judge not another until you look in a mirror an judge yourself.
Someone might whisper with a model but not take them private because:
1) The model has just finished a private show and isn't in the mood for another one.
2) The member doesn't have enough credits at the minute to do a private show.
3) The model PREFERS it that way.
4) The member PREFERS it that way.
5) The model is in a group chat and cannot go private.
6) A bond has been established and whether or not there's going to be a private right now, the model wants to say hello privately to someone he's friendly with.
7) They might be talking about personal things.
8) Neither model nor member wants their chat subject to the gossipy eyes of certain members.
If you're so against judging, stop doing it. You've whined about whispers, about people not talking in the public rooms, ad nauseum. Maybe that's how the member and the model prefer it, and it's honestly none of your business. Neither models or members are here to cater to your whims. I'd say it's much MORE disrespectful to expect the model to yak yak yak with someone who rarely tips and never goes private.
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